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Old 04-28-2007, 11:06 PM   #1
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A simple rant about women

Maybe i'm just a magnet, because every girl i go out with ends up betraying me with some other guy. Your next thought will be: "This guy must suck in bed." I'm not going to talk about , because i'll come off as a showoff so i'll leave this subject since is not what relationships are about. In any case, committed relationships are hard. As most already know, a relationship consits of someone loving the other more....this is always the case, at least from my experience. In my case, I end up loving more...and I suppose it bored her/smothered her too much.

Women can be loyal, but how many are actually loyal? On a recent survey...well, a year ago really...from an interpersonal relationships course, i read that women cheat more than men. When class started, the professor asked:

"Who do you think cheats more? Men? Or Women?"

Being that the class mostly consisted of RN majors, most being women....way more than half said men without thinking. A few other women said women cheat more. And of course, only 3 guys said women.

I already knew the answer since i read ahead, and the professor gave the answer, some were shocked as if the survey itself was wrong....it could be, it was only a state-wide survey.....i digress.

Another thing I find strange in a relationship is the degree of trust and how easy it can be destroyed. Where in our society have we become such perfectionists that most people cannot forgive. Sure we all have our pet peeves, its our morality that is unwavering that creates trust conflicts if they were presented in such a fashion:

- If you cheat on me, i wont trust you, and if the trust is not there, there is no relationship. Its over.

I find nothing wrong with that, actually. But it happens, like a broken record....or just some other episode of desperate housewives that will be forgotten within a few days.

Meh, i can go on and on about this bs. so i'll cut this short since most of you will end up complaining you wont read all this.
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I have never cheated on a guy so I can't speak for the women you seem to attract. However, it just looks like you haven't found the right one. What girls are you attractedt to?

I had a friend who said that all man are abusers. All her boyfriends were either mentally and/or physically abusing her. However, when I told her that the guys she dated wouldn't even make it to a second date with me, she just blew it off. When the first signs started and I told her to get rid of the guy, she kept hanging on to them until it was too late. That happened every time and after knowing her for over ten years, I could tell her that it wasn't "all guys" but "her". Those 'tough' guys were the only ones she was ever attracted to. Come to find out she was abused as a child by her dad (drunk, coming home and slapping and beating around wife and daughter) and deep down, she thought that is the only way love was shown.

Okay, in your case may not be that serious and I don't know your age or the women you dated, but maybe see why you seem to only get those women. Do they have a characteristic that you are attracted to? A characteristic that makes them not wanting to be true to one guy or being able to comitt?

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i only date older women, i am starting to think Drama wears off in women after the age of 28-ish. lol
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I have never cheated on a guy so I can't speak for the women you seem to attract. However, it just looks like you haven't found the right one. What girls are you attractedt to?

I had a friend who said that all man are abusers. All her boyfriends were either mentally and/or physically abusing her. However, when I told her that the guys she dated wouldn't even make it to a second date with me, she just blew it off. When the first signs started and I told her to get rid of the guy, she kept hanging on to them until it was too late. That happened every time and after knowing her for over ten years, I could tell her that it wasn't "all guys" but "her". Those 'tough' guys were the only ones she was ever attracted to. Come to find out she was abused as a child by her dad (drunk, coming home and slapping and beating around wife and daughter) and deep down, she thought that is the only way love was shown.

Okay, in your case may not be that serious and I don't know your age or the women you dated, but maybe see why you seem to only get those women. Do they have a characteristic that you are attracted to? A characteristic that makes them not wanting to be true to one guy or being able to comitt?

Just some thoughts.
Attracted to women who are bold and intelligent. Dont care much for looks, as long as she is'nt deformed. I mean, back in high school i fell for a girl who was deaf.....the day i was ready to ask her out, she came to me (we knew each other as friends) so ecxtatic about her best friend asking her out on a date. That was pwnage to the tenth degree back then.

Anyway, she can be deaf or blind...that dont matter to me, just as long as she's able to enjoy life moving around and not on some wheelchair...that'd be sad as all . I'm too picky with age as well, most girls i seem to attract are borederline jailbait, i.e. 18 to 20. And 20 is not bad, but still not 24...which is my age. So yea my last last ex was 5 years younger than me, and I almost wanted to end it because of that...but she was so awesome...not to mention she had a great sense of humor, had mostly the same hobbies i did and was great in bed. Could'nt ask for more....it lasted for 9 months...the last 3 were horrible. She ended up going sleeping w/ her ex behind my back....even blatantly.....as we would drive to get some food....he would run half naked from where he hid, i almost wanted to kill him but i kept my composure. Dont know why. Wow i'm going way off subject my bad.

I dont know about the women that I attract, but never once have i ever made a move on a woman, its always the opposite. They just come to me, and I make a choice. I guess all i can say is that from now on, i'll get to know her for a month or so, and if she comes off as a ...dump her? Now that i remember...the response i get is that my allure is "mysterious" and when they know how i tick or i tell them about myself...they get bored? Meh, i dont know. I was never good at relationships, I'm too honest...predictable...straight forward...and follow the code semper fi. I suppose some girl will come along eventually, i'm just getting tired of being betrayed, its putting somewhat of a dent on my ability to trust.
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i only date older women, i am starting to think Drama wears off in women after the age of 28-ish. lol
Thats what my sisters husband says. lolz. He basically told me to date older women....but i guess they dont go for the kid look :laughing6 :laughing6 I look like i'm 18 :eh:
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you can find all of that in a chic that is a few years older without all the drama. Try it once...you'll thank me later
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It seems that the bold girls that go for you, will also go for other guys. Why not turn it around and go for a girl from your end? If she turns you down a couple of times or is shy with you, she probably will be that way with other guys as well -> good for you.

I'd also recommend maybe going for the older mature girl if you are looking for some type of committment. There may be serious young chicks out there but the chances of getting a stable girl are higher with older girls. I grew up around women and heard their most intimate secrets, so I agree with the guys above on this one.

I wish I could tell you why some girls cheat but I can't. Just know that there are many true girls out there. If a girl has conviction about other things, she will probably also be faithful in a relationship. If she is wishy-washy with everything (i.e. can easily get rid of her dog, throws stuff away without any regrets, doesn't have a single teddybear from childhood anymore), most likely her attitude about relationships ain't any different.

Also, try to relax a bit. There is nothing wrong with getting to know a girl first and be friends and get to know her as a person before getting involved with feelings.
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you can find all of that in a chic that is a few years older without all the drama. Try it once...you'll thank me later
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The thing is, i'm sure the girls who are worth going out are NOT the type to walk up to me and start a chat...I have a hard time on that field. I just walk up to some girl if i had the guts and just :confused1 and walk away :BangHead: I guess I should just imagine i'm already friends with her because clearly...women are people too...not dangerous animals that will bite your hand off. i'm not nervous with my friends who are women, which make up 1/2 of my entire friend list, just with the one's i wanna get with.
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The thing is, i'm sure the girls who are worth going out are NOT the type to walk up to me and start a chat...I have a hard time on that field. I just walk up to some girl if i had the guts and just :confused1 and walk away :BangHead: I guess I should just imagine i'm already friends with her because clearly...women are people too...not dangerous animals that will bite your hand off. i'm not nervous with my friends who are women, which make up 1/2 of my entire friend list, just with the one's i wanna get with.

I don't know about the dangerous animal part. Bleed for a whole week and not die. Pretty tough.
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I'm 16 and my 17 year old g/f is more mature than the girls you date.

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